Mature Friends Newsletter

What’s New in October
Mailing Address:
Mature Friends
PO Box 21203, Seattle, WA 98111-3203

Every month, Mature Friends publishes the newsletter with updates on our activities. So, here is what we’re up to this month, such as traveling (both locally and internationally), attending arts events, playing bridge or pinochle, reading and discussing books, making investments, touring gardens, taking walks and going on hikes, choosing among many options for dinners and lunches, cooking, and tasting fine wines from our own state, from other states, and from around the world.


Goings On

Please click on underlined area for additional information.

Eating Date and Time Location
Lunch Out  🍴 Wed., Oct. 10 and 24
12:00 noon
Roosters on Broadway
Dinner Out 🍴
First Tuesday [NEW] –>
Third Tuesday –>

Tues., Oct. 2,  6:30 p.m.
Tues., Oct. 16, 6:00 p.m.

Palermo's on Capitol Hill, 350 15th Avenue East.
Robb’s 125th Street Grill
Monthly Potluck 🍴
Food Contributions
Sat., Oct. 27, at 6:00 p.m.
(Pre-potluck activity, 5 p.m)
Wallingford Community Senior Center
Wine Tasting  Wine
Mon., Nov. 19, at 7:00 p.m.
Wine from Greece
Dinner for Six 🍴 Determined by participants In members’ homes
Annual Banquet 🍴 Sat., June TBD, 2019
Cocktails at 6:00 p.m.
Dinner at 7:00 p.m.
Women's University Club
Annual Picnic  🌭
Sat., Aug. TBD, 2019
Appetizers at 12:00 noon
Meridian Park 
Christmas Lunch  🎄
Sat., Dec. 15
Cocktails at 11:30 a.m.
Lunch at 1:15 p.m.
Robb’s 125th Street Grill
Playing Date and Time Location
Bridge Club1 🃏 Every Wed. at 7:00 p.m. Wallingford Community Senior Center
Pinochle Club2  🃏 Wed., Oct. 3 & 17 at 7:00 p.m.
Wallingford Community Senior Center
Green Lake Walk  🌳 Every Wed. at 11:00 a.m.
S.W. Corner of Green Lake at tree #51 on map
(Afterwards, some lunch at the Blue Star Cafe and Pub at noon)
A Better Club for Investing    📈 Sun., TBD, at 5:00 p.m.  
Members, contact club leader Karl for location;
See newsletter for contact information.
Book Club    📖 Tue., Oct. 16, at 7:30 p.m.
John Preston’s "A Very English Scandal: Sex, Lies and a Murder Plot in the Houses of Parliament"
Board Meeting  📓 Mon., Oct. 8 at 7:00 p.m.
In a board member’s home
Walk/Hike 🚶 Tue., Oct. 16, at 9:30 a.m. Big Four Ice Caves Trail
Garden Tour  🌺
Date not yet set
Amazon Spheres lottery
Theater, Music  🎭 Mon., Oct. 29
Happy Hour at Blueacre Seafood & Silent Movie at Paramount Theater
Scarecrow  Screenings  🎭 Sun., Oct. 21, at 3:00 p.m. Not Gay
Oddball Outing  Thurs., Oct. 11, at 9:30 a.m.
Wild Horse Wind and Solar Facility and Renewable Energy Center  Reservations required, see newsletter.
Travel and Events  ✈️ Various trips, foreign and U.S.
Check our destinations

1 The fee for Bridge Club is $4.00 per night for members (who pay an annual fee of $40.00 to join the club) and $5.00 for nonmembers.

2 The fee for Pinochle is $4.00 per night for members and for nonmembers.


Potluck Contributions

On the last Saturday of the month, the membership meets for a big potluck at the Wallingford Community Senior Center

No June or August Potluck: in June, our annual banquet substitutes for the potluck, and in August, the picnic substitutes.

Each member is assigned a type of dish to bring based on the initial of their last name.

If you bring a vegan or vegetarian dish, please label it as such.

Plan for all dishes to serve 6-to-8 people.

Dish to Bring Initial of Last Name
Appetizer1 H, S, T, W
Main Dish
A, D, F, K, P, V, Z
.B, E, R
L, O
C, G, I, J, M, N

1 For those assigned to bring an appetizer, please arrive early.



Once a month, our hike leader takes a group on a day hike through some beautiful territory. If the hike leads the group out of town and you share a ride, expect to chip in a few dollars to the driver for gas. Also, the group sometimes brown bags it for lunch along the trail. Other than that, this activity is an invigorating, frugal day’s entertainment!

So why not join us on the next hike?

October Hike along the Big Four Ice Caves Trail

Our October hike will be on the Big Four Ice Caves Trail. The inaccurately named ice caves are actually large snow fans at the base of the mountain. The scenic drive along the Mountain Loop Highway to the trail head is worth a trip in itself. After crossing the Stillaguamish River on a bridge the trail winds gradually up to a large open area at the foot of 4000-foot cliffs with waterfalls. From here there are side trails to explore the views. Across the river valley Mt. Dickerman looms. We can expect to see fall leaf color on the trees at the lower elevations, offset by the dark green of evergreens at higher elevations. It’s one of the nicest alpine views in the Cascades. Round trip is 2.2 miles, with 220 feet of elevation gain.

We will meet at 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday, October 16, in front of the Bank of America building at the north end of Northgate Shopping Center, just off Northgate Way. Bring a lunch and water. Car poolers share the cost. We will arrive back in Seattle by 3:30 p.m. A Northwest Forest Pass or Senior Pass is required at the trail head parking area.

If you wish to drive directly to the trail head proceed to Granite Falls. From Granite Falls follow the Mountain Loop Highway east for 26 miles, turn in at the sign for the Big Four Picnic Area on the right. There is another trail head half a mile further east, but we will meet at the picnic area trail head.

September Hike to Green Water Lakes

Our September we hiked to the Greenwater Lakes, near the town of Greenwater, Washington. This hike goes along the Greenwater River, through mossy forest to two lakes. Along the way we saw some old growth forest, and several waterfalls. The first lake is at 1.5 miles; the second lake is at 2 miles. Since the trail is along a river the elevation gain is moderate. This hike was popular with our Mature Friends hikers in the past.

Hikers at Barclay Lake

Jerry, Scott, Stephen, and Dale (Hiker Keith Not Shown)

Snapshots from Some of Our Previous Hikes

Our hikers posed with beautiful backdrops from some of our past treks. The following pictures show some examples.

Chris, Duane, Al, Steve, Garry, and Dale Hiking Up to Barclay Lake

Mark, Gene, Lowell, Scott, Lee, Garry, and Dale on the Trail to Denny Creek

Roger, Ed, Chris, Gene, David, Lee, Al, Garry, Bill, Steve, Bill, and Dale on the Mine Road Trail

Ramon, Steve, Al, Chris, Chris (there were two hikers named Chris), and Dale on the Pratt River Connector Trail

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Garden Tours

This wildly popular activity takes you on tours of beautiful gardens in the Seattle and greater Seattle area. Led by our resident horticulturalist, Dr. John Wott, you see a variety of plants, flowers, and shrubs. So, if you like plants and gardens or if you’re just interested to learn a little about horticulture, come join us!

October Tour — Amazon Spheres (Take 2)

In August twelve Mature Friends were selected by lottery to tour the three spheres of the newly opened Amazon headquarters. Due to international travel by the Head of Horticultural Services, details of our late October tour have yet to be finalized. Once details are finalized and the date and time set, Dr. Wott will notify lottery winners.

September Tour of Two Gardens

On Saturday, September 15, 2018, we visited gardens recently featured on two special horticulture tours. We met at the garden of Jason Jorgensen who transformed a previously tired front lawn into a new focal point for the neighborhood. The south facing slope has been transformed into a densely planted summer dry garden featuring a carefully selected palette of drought-tolerant yet winter hardy trees, shrubs, perennials, and billowing grasses.

The backyard, gracing a centeral in-ground water feature made from a granite slab, is a richly planted mixed border featuring a tapestry of perennials, roses, and evergreens. The garden also includes raised fruit and vegetable beds and a patio enveloped by carefully curated shade plants.

Mature Friends   Mature Friends
Mature Friends at Jason Jorgensen's garden.                                          Mature Friends at Gillian Mathews garden.

The garden of Gillian Mathews, owner of Ravenna Gardens in the University Village, was featured in the Sunday, August 17, 2018, Pacific Northwest Magazine. Within the past two years, the garden has been redesigned and replanted. Fruits, vegetables, and herbs flourish in the sunny back garden while clipped boxwoods, lavender, and evergreens create a quieter space in front. The formerly lawn-dominated lot showcases progress within a year.

Garden Tourist Brian's photos

Dr. John Wott

Dr. John Wott, Horticulturalist and Garden Tour Guru

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Wine Tasting

This every-other-month activity is hosted in a Mature Friends member’s home. The newsletter gives the location and wines to be tasted. RSVP to Ed K. (see newsletter for contact information).

No October Tasting

September Tasting

Our September meeting at Ed and Roger's house was focused on whites and reds from the Piedmont district in Italy’s northeast. Here is a link to photos of the wines we tasted at the September 17, 2018 Mature Friends wine tasting thanks to Dale J.  Look for a review of the tasting in the November newsletter.

For more information on Piedmont wines, visit The Unknown Winecaster YouTube video

Previous Tasting

Twenty group members met for a summer festival of food and wine. Our hosts provided wine from their cellar as well as German sausages. Everyone participated with appetizers and desserts. It was a wonderful summer day, perfect for this kind of ‘'picnic.”

We began with a sweet Riesling from Yakima’s Knight Hill, refreshing and light, a perfect starter. Next, a 2013 Luminous Chardonnay, had a slight citrus flavor, not too oaky and totally satisfying. Then a 2014 Chianti Classico, a value at $14.00. Many others followed, finishing with an excellent Aponte 2005 Temperanillo. It was Sunday and, starting early, we left before traffic would be overwhelming. All in all a great afternoon.

Wine Wisdom
Ed K., Wine Tasting Guru

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Oddball Outing

This once-a-month activity that began in 2017, takes us on day trips and activities around the town or to locations nearby.

Tour the "Wild Horse Wind and Solar Facility and Renewable Energy Center"

There are just a few spaces left for our Oddball Outing to the Wild Horse Wind and Solar Facility and Renewable Energy Center located 16 miles east of Ellensburg. We will travel by van to the Center, for an up-close look at the 149 wind turbines at the facility. We will explore the diverse education displays at the Center, where we will learn about wind and solar technology and also about the area’s unique natural history. We will also walk on outdoor trails, which lead to a solar array, blade, turbine generator, gearbox, and additional displays. This will all take place in a spectacular setting, one with 360-degree views of Mount Rainier, Mount Adams, Mount Hood, and the breathtaking Columbia River Basin. The trip is on Thursday October 11 from 9:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. The cost of the trip is $30, which includes travel in a city van and a boxed lunch. Pickup sites will be at Miller Community Center on Capitol Hill and at the Northgate Nordstrom Rack.

September Outing: Lemay Vintage Automobile Collection

Start Your Engines! The September Oddball Outing will take us to the Lemay Collections at the historic Marymount campus in southeast Tacoma. Note: This is NOT the big silver Lemay America’s Car Museum next to the Tacoma Dome.

Dan Oban, an old-car enthusiast and Mature Friends board member, has arranged a private vintage vehicle tour at Marymount for Mature Friends members. On the tour, we will see over 500 vintage vehicles, Americana, memorabilia, and automobilia. No leaning on the cars, boys. We will be walking and standing during the entire tour, and the site is not wheel-chair accessible. The tour will last two to two and a half hours. Afterwards, we will have lunch at Panera Bread in Federal Way.

The tour will begin at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, September 11. The cost is $10.00 cash.

Dan will coordinate driving/carpooling for the event. You may also drive yourself, as there is plenty of free parking onsite. Whether you carpool or drive, you must reserve your space.

In a nutshell, here are the details of this sure-to-be-memorable outing:

August Outing

Six Mature Friends enjoyed the end of a smoke-filled week in Seattle by exploring the Olympic Sculpture Park on a warm, relatively clear summer evening. We ambled through the sculptures for an hour or more, with our cell phones at the ready to provide details about “Echo”, Father and Son”, and several of the other sculptures. We learned of the new location of the missing “Typewriter Eraser, Scale X” sculpture, now at the Seattle Center. The featured music of the evening was LOUD, so we opted for a nearby Indian restaurant to enjoy a quieter, leisurely dinner. A good time was had by all.

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Travel and Events

This section is about recent or upcoming trips planned for Mature Friends. Everybody who has gone on one of these trips has had a great time and was well taken care of. So, what are you waiting for? Sign up and join the fun!

NOTE: To travel with us, you must first join the club.

Thailand in Spring 2019

Travel to Thailand—once called Siam—where independence, hospitality, and the traditional philosophy that "life is pleasure" casts a spell over every visitor. In a small group, you'll weave your way into daily life to get an authentic glimpse of a culture that has gone untouched by western influence. Let locals lead you through their cities, villages, markets, and temples on this adventure from Bangkok to Chiang Rai.

Exploring Thailand from the cosmopolitan south to the remote northern hill tribes, you'll witness Buddhist monks receiving alms at a dawn ceremony, walk along scenic stretches of the Mekong River, hear about the studies and aspirations of students at a local university, and maybe even buy some fresh lemongrass in Bangkok's floating market. A local Trip Leader will help you gain an insider's perspective into Thai culture as they connect you with locals—prepare a traditional meal alongside villagers, dine in a local home, and ride on a traditional wooden rice barge. Discover what captivates so many visitors in this tropical nation.

Departure for Our Group

Optional Pre-Trip: Three-night Hong Kong stopover departs US
on March 11, 2019.

Main tour departs US on March 14, 2019, returning to US on March 29, 2019.


Optional three-night Hong Kong stopover: $695*

Main Tour: $2595 per person

Airfare from SEA: $1400 (but all US commercial airports available at varying costs)

*There’s a $195 single supplement fee on optional Hong Kong stopover

NOTE: You must book by July 13 and there must be 16 Mature Friends to keep the trip exclusive to our group. After July 13 if we don’t have 16 members signed up it will be open to the general public.

— Steve L., Travel Chairman

Past Trips and Events

If you missed some of the trips organized by Mature Friends, you might be interested in reading about what you missed. Or if you went on any of these wonderful trips, you might be interested in reliving the fun and adventure. If so, this section is for you!

Viking Homelands: April 28 – May 12, 2018

Eight Mature Friends embarked for fifteen days on Viking Ocean Cruises to Bergen, Norway, and disembark in Stockholm, Sweden. We will visit eight countries and dock at eleven ports of call. Accommodations on the Viking Sky consisted of a private veranda stateroom, including wine and beer with meals. The itinerary comprised eleven guided tours with ports of call that include Helsinki, Copenhagen, Berlin, Gdansk, and St. Petersburg.

A full account of this magnificent trip, with photos, will be forthcoming, so stay tuned.

Tacoma’s Big Three Museums: Last November, 2017

On Thursday, November 9, we bused down to Tacoma to visit three Tacoma Museums, including the Museum of Glass, Tacoma Art Museum, and Washington State History Museum. Each participant chose what museums to see and paid his or her own entry fee.

Special exhibits for November at the Art Museum include “Two Centuries of Still-Life Painting,” “The Dynamic American West,” and “The Art of Framing.” The Museum of Glass showcased special exhibitions dedicated to the work of Dale Chihuly and the glass and steel sculptures of Albert Paley.

Lake Diablo Day Trip

On August 10, thirteen Mature Friends bused to Diablo Lake. Hop aboard and get a taste of what these tourists saw and experienced. Maybe you can schedule this tour some day.

Diablo Lake Tour

California Coastal Cruise, 2017

Departing on April 11, seven Mature Friends sailed on the ten-night California Coastal Cruise departing from Vancouver, B.C. sailing at 4:30 p.m., we cruised down the coat for two days before arriving in Los Angeles, followed by a day on Catalina Island. After Catalina, we embarked for Santa Barbara for a day, ending up with an overnight stay in San Francisco. Then we sailed up the coast for two days before arriving back in Vancouver the morning of April 21.

Escape into Cuba

Five Mature Friends took off on an all gay tour with seven days in Cuba. They departed from Seattle and arrived in Havana in time for a group dinner.

The tour included a bus overview trip around the city and visits to a rum-bottling facility and a tobacco farm to see the cigar-making process. We also saw the unique mountains and caves in Vinales National Park. The highlights, though, were the explorations of the city we did on our own.

We saw the beautifully renovated plazas and streets in Old Havana (a UNESCO Heritage Site), strolled along the Malecon with hundreds of cell phone-toting Cubans, saw various museums, and reveled in the joy of riding in 1940s and 1950s vintage American car taxis. We all thoroughly enjoyed one another’s company, and it was a trip we will long remember.

Sail Lady Washington and Hawaiian Chieftain Sailing Ships

Avast, ye buccaneers! Last summer, our evening sailing on the Lady Washington and Hawaiian Chieftain got canceled because of a heavy rain and lightning storm that struck just before our sailing time. This year we tried again.

The three-hour cruise on Lake Washington in reproductions of eighteenth-century sailing ships features booming cannons, close quarter maneuvers, and the singing of sea shanties. Both ships have appeared in numerous movies and television shows. The ships will sailed on Saturday, September 3, at 2:00 p.m. from the docks at Carillon Point in Kirkland.

But don’t take my word for it. Read all about it and check out the pictures!

— President Bruce T.

The Cruise to Nowhere, September 16 – 23, 2017

The famous Cruise to Nowhere (actually it went somewhere) departed from Seattle with a one-day stop in Astoria, Oregon, then for two days in San Francisco, and finally one day in ., before returning to Seattle. This voyage consisted of a full seven-day cruise on Royal Caribbean’s Explorer of the Seas with no airfare required.

Cruise to Nowhere

Rome and Tuscany, April 23 – May 8, 2016

This trip began with a week in Rome. We spent a week in the Eternal City with a gay guide escorting us to the major tourist sites, including ancient, renaissance, and contemporary Rome.

We spent the second week at a private villa in Montisi, a small hill town in southern Tuscany. Day trips took us to Siena, the wine towns of Montepulciano, Mo ntalcino (home of Brunello wine), Assisi, Pienza, Chiusi (Etruscan sites), Orvieto, the antique fair in Arezzo, and Monte Olivetti Maggiore (a major abbey with a large collection of frescoes by the Renaissance painter Sodoma).

The fabulous trip concluded with a day in Florence. Some travelers extended their tour for a day or more in Florence.

Weekend in Texas, October 30 – November 1, 2015

On Friday, October 30, nine Mature Friends flew on Alaska Airlines nonstop to

San Antonio. We spent a great time in this beautiful city over Day of the Dead (Halloween) weekend, staying at the traditional El Tropicano River Walk Hotel right on the banks of the famous River Walk.

Daily high temperatures hovered around 75º with cloudy and clear skies. San Antonio is a popular convention town and the most visited city in Texas. It has the Alamo, an easily walkable downtown with several museums, and an amazing San Antonio River, which meanders for miles and on which quiet tour boats glide. Great restaurant terraces line the route from which you can watch the lighted boats pass and hear Mariachi and jazz quietly echoing up the canyon. The natural ambiance is romantic and real. And . . .

Remember the Alamo!

The Alamo

We spent a low-stress weekend mainly riding the hop-on-hop-off sight-seeing bus. Some in our group had booked a Halloween dinner cruise on the San Antonio River, but at the last minute the cruise got canceled due to heavy rains. Undaunted, the dinner guests got re-booked into a fine restaurant on the River Walk. Others of us went off on our own and also experienced fine dining on the River Walk. Two went to Landry’s Seafood and sat outside by the river. When the rain started, everybody scampered indoors . . . all except for two of us, who decided to stay put when the staff erected an umbrella over us.

Aside from the great food and beautiful scenery along the river banks, we enjoyed touring the Alamo, the San Antonio Museum of Art, the Tower of the Americas, La Villita, the Spanish Governor’s Palace, the Buckhorn Saloon and Museum, as well as many more sights. We could have spent a week and seen something new every day.

We flew home on Sunday evening after a full day of last-minute of sight-seeing. Everybody had a great time. Thank you, Jerry and Bob, for organizing this relaxing, enjoyable long weekend in Texas.

Reno Gambling Trip

Twenty-one people took off for our annual gambling trip on May 12. The package included round-trip airfare and accommodations at the El Dorado Resort Casino. We arrived in Reno shortly after 5:00 p.m., just in time for cocktail hour in the Roxy bar.

But to get the full story, come on and click the link and see some pictures of this relaxing three-day excursion.

Reno or Bust!

Grand Tour of China

In April 2014, about twenty Mature Friends set off for an adventure of a lifetime — touring China! To read about the trip, all we did, all we saw, please click the link:

Tour of China

And enjoy the pictures, too!

Spain and France

On October 12, 2014, twenty-four Mature Friends took off for Madrid, where they began a two-week tour of Northern Spain and Southern France. Please click the following link to see some of the sights they saw:

Tour of Spain and Southern France

Don’t forget to click the links in the story to see some pictures.

Cruise Down the Asian Coast

At the beginning of the Year of the Dragon, several Mature Friends took a cruise down the East Coast of Asia. We began in Hong Kong and ended up in Singapore. As with the tour of China, we saw several incredible sites, but without the hassle of unpacking and repacking, because our Holland-America ship acted as our home base. Check out this great cruise:

Cruise Down the Asian Coast

Cruise to Alaska

On April 29, a few Mature Friends set off on a short cruise off the Alaskan coast to Ketchikan. Everybody had a great time, as usual on a Mature Friends’ voyage. Check out some of the pictures of this relaxing trip

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Theater and Music

This section lists local theater and music productions that might be of interest to Mature Friends.

Screening of “Not Gay”

Not Gay is a collection of four short films that explore the varying interactions between gay and straight men. Contributions come from the Bahamas, France, and the United States. Released in 2008; 1 hour, 30 minutes.


Scarecrow Video
5030 Roosevelt Way NE

The private viewing room can accommodate only thirty people. To make sure no one is turned away at the door, please send your indication of interest to Roger M. (except not October 2018; see your newsletter for contact information.)

— Roger M.

Silent Movie: The Cat and the Canary

After Happy Hour at Blueacre Seafood, meet at the Paramount Theater at 6:30 p.m. for The Cat and the Canary, a 1927 film by director Paul Leni. Laced with humor, this picture established the haunted house horror-comedy genre. Its bold visual style and mobile camera gliding through atmospheric sets make you feel like you are one of the characters moving through the film’s haunted house. Musical accompaniment by Christian Elliott on the Mighty Wurlitzer Organ. Movie tickets cost just $10.00.

Seattle International Film Festival Report

Report on the 44th annual Seattle International Film Festival

Shakespeare and Daedalus in Ashland

Thirteen Mature Friends journeyed to Ashland in August to see four plays including a same-sex Oklahoma! that has been making national news, and excellent productions of Othello and Henry V by Shakespeare. We also saw a new play, The Way the Mountain Moved, which had interesting themes, but many of us thought it was not yet finished coming together. We had hoped to take part in the Oregon Shakespeare Festivals AIDS benefit, The Daedalus Project, but it was postponed until September because of heavy smoke from fires in Northern California. News of the Ashland trip for 2019 should be in the newsletter in early fall. We are waiting to hear about next year’s scheduling of Daedalus, which has been a popular feature of our visits. Many of those who stayed over on the day of Daedalus were able to see Avenue Q at the Ashland Cabaret Theater.

— Bruce B.

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